Thursday, March 11, 2010

Friendlier Person

Sometime people do ignorance & arrogant, but they don't realize it or maybe they think those behavior are their personality and acceptable. Or maybe you have a problem with your brother, sister, friend, husband, etc. Well, these are some tips becoming a friendlier person (Dale Carnegie's Golden Book, 2000) :


Don't criticize, condemn or complain
Hindari kebiasaan Salahkan, Omeli, Kritik

Give honest, sincere appreciation
Berikan penghargaan yang jujur dan tulus

Arouse in the other person an eager want
Bangunlah keinginan untuk berhasil dalam diri orang lain

Become genuinely interested in other people
Berikan perhatian yang sungguh pada orang lain

Smile
Senyum :)

Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language
Ingatlah nama seseorang

Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves
Jadilah pendengar yang baik. Doronglah orang lain untuk berbicara banyak tentang dirinya sendiri

Talk in terms of other person's interests
Berbicaralah sesuai dengan minat orang lain

Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely
Buatlah orang lain merasa dirinya penting dan lakukanlah dengan tulus

I confidently sure that these tips can help us building relationship, winning friend, and also influencing people. Trust me, it works :)

Some of My Besties, We do fun at Dufan :)
Disha, Me, and Olive

Have a great weekend everyone!

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